They will judge you no matter what.

Life teaches us a lot of lessons.

All of us have gone through some situations in our lives that we never want to speak about. We believe that some things are better when left unsaid. It's all because we fear. we have judgmental fears and we sometimes hesitate to share , because we don't trust people.. No one can understand it better than the one who has gone through it.The tough situations that we have faced in our lives have helped us grow in some way or the other. You think they didn't make you a better person? Then compare your present self with your past self and try noticing the change in you.

And to the people who judge ,who are you to judge? You definitely have no idea what the other person might be going through. You have no right to judge because you haven't lived that person's life.
And to the people who fear judgements, understand that this world will judge you no matter what. You are just going to be a topic of discussion at that point of time ,and not anytime later. They will judge you today and later forget the reason that they had judged you for.